Cupid's Coach With Julie Ferman

John Mitchell, creator of Think It Be It, is my guest, sharing the solution to most all of our problems in life - by influencing our subconscious mind, by design, on purpose. He used this process to achieve monumental success professionally and more importantly, to manifest his wife, at the age of 50, having never been married and after lots and lots and lots of dating. It's an honor to share him with you..

Who are you guys? What are we creating together? Who gets to participate, and who doesn't? Why do I LOVE providing free Mitzvah Matches, every chance I can? How might you be the recipient? Where do YOU want to be in the Cupid's Coach Community. Why Boot Camp is co-ed, all ages. How to get invited to retreats? Why are free introductions more powerful than for-fee introductions? The future starts now.

Robin Fisher Roffer, Brand Stratagist, author and solo travel enthusiast shares why traveling alone makes you a better, richer, more interesting and more lovable person. What a mature partnership looks like and why being with the Evolved Guy can be a problem....

Damona Hoffman is my guest. She is the author of "F the Fairy Tale" and the host of the Dates & Mates Podcast. She busts the four dating myths and highlights the four pillars of lasting love. How to beat the online dating algorithms and the importance of bringing empathy to the dating process.

Andrew Dowling, founder of Stitch is in the hot seat. A 50+ Community in 5000 cities all around the world for 10 years, Stitch connects people for companionship, shared interests, and activities. Combatting loneliness, making social connections, enriching lives through natural passions of all kinds. How walking/hiking together solidifies relationships.

Really? Dating Coach, Sally Landau shows us how!  Flirting - what is it, really? How is married life with Ken, after 20 years, and what did she do to SAVE the introduction from falling apart?

Nick Notas, Dating Coach for Men, shares must-know advice on early engagement. What to say, how and when to say it. Confidence building, the KEY to nailing down the first / second date. How to say difficult things, and what a woman must do to save the guy, save the date and transform our dating culture.

My guest is Lisa Shield, Dating / Love / Relationship Coach. What are The Four Agreements? Initiating is whose responsibility? What is it to "take the Feminine Lead" ? Do we need to be needed? How transparent to be about the desire to have children? Join us.

Great Love Debate host (and Cupid's Coach podcast producer!) Brian Howie is in the Hot Seat, with Mr. Feman - Julie's hubby since 1990, former franchisee with Great Expectations Video Dating Service - where Gil sold Julie a membership to his agency. 34 years later, what does Gil have to say about Dating and the Dating Industry today? What's happening with The Great Love Debate in 2024?

What's it like being The Guy who's deservedly selective, sincerely seeking a relationship, struggling through the dating process? What does he need in order to engage with a woman at the coffee shop? What are HIS pressure points? When the matchmaker can't get his Yes for the introduction, why is that?

Why are some people one-date-wonder specialists? What does “doing dating well” look like? Good dating, Bad dating, Ugly dating— How would you rate your behavior of late? Edu-taining stories await for you here. 

What "doing dating well" sounds like. Jonathon Aslay and Dr. Corinne Devin share insider perspectives on modern dating. What's intimidating, what's alluring in today's world? Alignment, the deception of chemistry, and the Sniff Test. How proactive to be?  How much work should it be to do dating well? And how to say difficult things. 

Does it reveal that you’re ready for and prepared to have someone else around? My guest is Marlena Boardman, Interior Designer, whose company, Hello Handsome helps single men up their game in the arena of living space. How’s your Zoom environment? Your car? Decluttering does what for us?

Be the fly on the wall, as two world class matchmakers talk turkey about what it’s like behind the scenes. My guest is Laurie Berzack, founder of Carolinas Matchmaker. Sex - when to go there and why we’re wise to wait for it. Why women are smart to be dating online and how to do it well. And the evolution of the planning of The Date. 

From the Horse’s Mouth! My guest is Thomas Carouso, MFT, sharing the grown-up, mature guy’s perspective in dating.  What is it that he is most seeking? Beyond attraction, what qualities are essential for a conscious, evolved man to see in a woman, to take her seriously? He’d rather be single forever than partner with a woman who isn’t ….what?

Looking for chemistry? What are YOU doing to seed it, to set the stage for connection? My guest is Dating Coach Hunt Ethridge, master of “chemistry preparedness” - sharing with us what tangential questions to ask in the dating process. What’s a positive emotional question? How can we set the stage for chemistry to find us? Why do men sit next to each other, vs. facing each other?  And the power of respect, appreciation, a compliment in creating the space for chemistry. 

My guest is Kristina Court, who is on a mission to empower and support single, modern, professional women, using both spiritual and practical tools, accelerating the unseen desire for truth. She walks her talk and her British accent is delightful. Join us.

Those who aren’t getting it are easy to find - the folks who are looking for an unnatural match, who are polluting the waters with sloppy, discourteous, dishonest behaviors. AND there are miracles happening - Boot Camp Clients who are reinventing their dating lives. They’re planning their own events and they’re bringing the magic - willingness to rethink things, reorganize their priorities, their practices and behavior. Those who are getting it are practicing causing what’s been lacking. 

Let's rethink this. Dating "your way" isn't working well? Might you be game for truly trusting your matchmaker - having a date with someone whose photos and "checkboxes" you've not seen? My guest is my colleague, Genevieve Gresset, Director of Communications for The Matchmaking Company, with 40 offices throughout the U.S. What possibilities and surprises might there be for you if you took your hands off the wheel?

My guest is renowned, enormously popular NYC Matchmaker, Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, host of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. What partnership looks like, with a strong, accomplished, "intimidating" woman. Once and for all, we handle height, wealth and religion. And, how to have better first dates - masturbate first. Who knew?